Nicola Beer is an international best-selling author and relationship coach that helps individuals in-person and online across the world to emotionally heal and create a new beginning.
Couples
This includes helping couples on the verge of a break up to restore the love, passion, respect and fun, that is often missing when a relationship breaks down, as well as action steps to heal, rebuild connection and trust after infidelity and the discovery of an affair.
Separation
She also works with individuals to get through a divorce and manage the stress and emotional roller-coaster that often follows. Where she helps them to create fulfilling life after separation by addressing concerns & fears head on and by focusing on people and activities that will bring greater happiness. If desired part of the happiness may include meeting someone new, where Nicola provides tips on how to attract the right partner and dating.
Divorce support also includes helping children to adapt to the changes, protecting their best interests, effective co-parenting plans and working with the teenagers and families affected.
Relationship with Self
Lastly as our love life and relationships are determined by how much we love, value and give to ourselves Nicola has a program �receiving love to transform your relationships� where, working with individuals she focuses on increasing confidence, self-esteem and the ability to accept and feel love, compliments, and praise.
How Nicola Became a Relationship Coach
When Nicola was 13 her parent�s got divorced, she remembers feeling alone, anxious, angry and abandoned. Her father moved far away and her mother had a breakdown and became angry and abusive. Due to the fear of not wanting to push her father any further away or aggravate her mother and face the repercussions. Nicola learnt to repress her anger, frustration and loneliness inside and carried this pain with her for many years.
All she really wanted at the time was someone to talk to, someone who could help her through it and encourage her to focus on the future.
But no one was there.
Having experienced two painful romantic break up�s Nicola felt alone, anxious, angry and abandoned after her parent�s divorce, aged 13. Her father moved far away and her mother had a breakdown and became angry and abusive. Due to the fear of not wanting to push her father any further away or aggravate her mother and face the repercussions. Nicola learnt to bury her frustration and loneliness inside, causing her to carry this pain with her well into her twenties.
All she really wanted at the time was someone to talk to, someone who could help her through it and encourage her to focus on the future. But no one was there.
Through reflection, coaching, painful relationship issues and breakups, Nicola became aware that the support she craved for, was also exactly what her mother needed during and after the divorce. Strategies to cope with the financial, logistical and emotional changes. Tips to deal with the stress, frustration, hurt and co-parenting challenges she was facing.
Having managed to have pulled herself out of the pit of depression, free herself from unhealthy habits, release the repressed anger, emotionally heal, design and create her dream life. Nicola decided to commit her life to help others do the same. It took Nicola a decade to heal and move on from the past and feel truly alive and happy again, and is keen to share her strategies with others. So they get results in months not years.
Experience and Qualifications
In 2003 Nicola worked as a volunteer for four years with Samaritans (a UK charity) where she listened to callers going through emotional distress and provided a safe place for them to share their feelings and thoughts.
Then in 2007, Nicola started her plan to work as a private coach, where she now supports individuals, couples and teenagers all across the globe via Skype or fly in packages in Dubai, to emotionally heal and make positive changes.
Nicola is committed to getting transformational results for her clients and continues to learn and strengthen her practice. She is UK & US certified in many different disciplines Coaching, NLP, Hypnosis, Myer Briggs, Time Line Therapy®, Relationship Coaching, Addiction Recovery, Conflict Resolution, Cellular and DNA healing, The Journey, Nicola draws on her experiences to offer encouragement, resilience skills and a unique perspective on how to turn marriage breakdown and divorce into an opportunity to jumpstart a new beginning.